Candle Magic

Candle Magic is simple and easy for any beginner witch to use for mediation, spells, or rituals!

So, I thought I would share what I have learned about candle colors and their meanings.


• Peace
• Purity
• Virginity
• Divination
• Healing
• Can be used to substitute any color during a ritual or spell


• Binding
• Protection
• Repels Negativity
• Deep Meditation


• Grounding
• Earth Rites
• Animals
• Friendships


• Dreams
• Clairvoyance
• Intuition
• Lunar Energy
• Femininity
• The Goddess


• Psychic Ability
• Spiritual Power
• Wisdom
• Higher Forces
• Divination


• Element of Water
• Protection
• Truth
• Calming
• Communication


• Element of Earth
• Physical Healing
• Luck
• Monetary Success
• Tree and Plant Magic
• Growth


• Affection
• Romance
• Caring
• Nurturing
• Friendship


• Element of Fire
• Passion
• Strength
• Lust
• Courage
• Survival
• Action


• Joy
• Energy
• Good Fortune
• Feasting
• Justice
• Career Goals


• Promote Winning
• The God
• Happiness
• The Power of Male


• The Element of Air
• Intelligence
• The Sun
• Memory
• Learning

Call of the Circle

Of course I felt the call to Cast a Circle last night… Seems simple right?

I mean usually it is, I just walk over to my handy dandy (but a little wimpy) altar, collect what I need, center myself, call the elements and cast my circle.

(tires screeching!)

Oh wait…

Yeah, so I was kinda staying at my parents house for a visit, sans altar.

But this call was strong. Something wanted me to sit down and listen. I just needed to make the space so it could speak.

Luckily, my Dad is a mild hoarder. His barn is filled with all sorts of odds and ends! So I got a flashlight and went hunting!

When I’m calling a circle, I need the elements at my side. Air to bring clarity and amplify my intuition. Fire to give me strength and courage. Earth to ground me and bring me wisdom. Water to promote reflection and self-healing.

So I had a mission, I needed representations of the elements.

Usually to represent air, I use incense.

But with none to be had, I thought about using leaves.
(I guess if they blow in the wind they count?? but seriously is there some kind of criteria? Its kind of vague. Do they have to fly a certain distance? Do you have to witness the flying in the breeze?)
You can see that didn’t work for me.
My Dad keeps chickens!

A perfect representation of the element of air.
So, I searched all over that barn for a lost feather, and in a back corner I found a beautiful grey and black feather. SUCCESS!

Now fire, I had already sorted out, but not easily.

Do you think I could find a dang candle in that farm house! Mwahaha.I was so naive.
Decorative candles as far as the eye can see!

None for actual use… I searched and searched.
I was about to settle for a white birthday candle. But in some little random closet under some VERY NOISY dishes, was a candle that was not decorative! SUCCESS!

Earth. My element. It calls me with such intensity.

I felt I needed a representation worthy of that call.
The answer was so simple, it became somewhat elegant in its simplicity. The farm. The homestead. The very ground I was walking on.
My family has been there for 160 years.
One hundred and sixty years of history worn in to the very ground.

I found a mason jar that my Grandmother had used.
I walked through the dark, to a tree, planted long ago, and dug into the ground.
Rich earth, the homestead, my home.
A worthy representation.

Water was quite easy. I used another of my Grandmothers mason jars.

Ran some water from the tap, the farm runs on well water so it felt… I don’t know. Clearer.

I was set!

And frozen…!

I scurried back inside, warmed up my fingers, and cast my circle!

And I listened, learned, and I grew.

Candice 🙂

Tarot Journal

Date: November 6, 2018


Deck Used:  The Goddess Tarot (graciously loaned to me by Cristina Matteis! Thank You!)


Spread: Past/ Present/ Future


General Reading or the Question Asked: I am honestly not sure what specific question I was asking, but I was reflecting on my career and my path forward.


Card 1: Past  Card 2: Present  Card 3: Possible Future Card 4: The Over All Message


Card 1: XII – Sacrifice – Kuan Yin

Meaning: A surrender to higher principles, higher goals, self abnegation. Taking care of others. Sacrifice in order to gain wisdom and empathy.

My Interpretation: It feels like the perfect description of my beginning as a Vet Tech. I gave up the easy path, so I could pursue knowledge and care for those creatures that are experiencing their darkest hour at the expense of my inner self.


Card 2: Ten of Staves

Meaning: The accumulation of the creative venture began with the one of staves. Success that becomes overwhelming with its responsibility.

My Interpretation: I feel like I have hit a glass ceiling as it where. My skill level and knowledge base is vast, but I feel like I can go further. I’m just not sure how.


Card 3: Four of Swords

Meaning: The need for introspection and healing. Recuperation from illness. Time to take a break from stressful situations.

My Interpretations: If I don’t make some kind of change. I will never heal. I will need to take time away and maybe never return to the career I love but is currently draining everything I have.


Card 4: Seven of Staves

Meaning: Though you may have the upper hand in this situation there is still struggle. Success is possible but only after dealing with difficult people who may not be supportive.

My Interpretation: There is a path forward. It will not be easy, but I must defend my path against those who wish to keep my down if I wish to fly.


In the Spotlight

Asking Alexandria has been blowing my mind with their acoustic music!

Enjoy the playlist!

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10 Motivational Inspirational Quotes

“One of the most courageous decisions you’ll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your soul.” – Brigitte Nicole

Brigitte Nicole


“The world needs more storytellers, dreamers, change makers, & action takers.”



“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.”

Life Begins


“Keep going, because you did not come this far, to get this far.”

Keep Going


“Don’t let anyone tell you that your independence is the reason for you being single. Your strength as a woman isn’t the cause for your loneliness. You’re alone because you’d rather not entertain a weak man.” – r.h. sin



“It’s ok if you fall down and lose your spark. Just make sure that when you get back up, you rise as the while damn fire.”



“Nothing will ruin your twenties more than thinking you should have your life together already.”



“You are not too old and its is not too late.”

Not too Late


“I’m on the hunt for who I’ve not yet become.”

On the Hunt


“And suddenly you just know it’s time to start something new and trust in the magic of beginnings.”

New Beginnings

Divine Divination

I wonder if its my anxiety that draws me to the practice of Divination. The possibility of answers in all of this unknown. The unknown that my anxiety likes to take and run for miles with.

The simplest form of divination is using a Pendulum. The essence of it is to connect with one’s own intuition and subconscious to find answers.

So how does one choose a pendulum?

My gut made the choice for me. I guess a more eloquent way to describe it would be, my intuition guided me.

As I was out searching the stores for incense and candles. I was drawn to an Onyx faucet pendulum. As soon as I saw it amongst the others. I knew, it was coming home with me. It wasn’t in my budget, but I did not care. I had to have it!

As I reflected upon this choice. I decided to research the stone I was drawn too.

Onyx is a very strong protective stone, it calms the mind and energies. Which helps to relieve worry anxiety. (POINT ONE FOR INTUITION!) The zodiac associated with it, is Capricorn (I’m a Capricorn!), its element is earth, (the element I seem to connect most with), and lastly the chakra associated with it is the root chakra. (still learning about that stuff… one step at a time)

So, after all that, I came to the conclusion. My intuition deserves a high five!

I hope with my intuition being on point, this means divination will come easier to me.

I am still getting to know my pendulum and myself, asking simple questions so I can get to know how it responds. Small “Yes” when I asked if I was 24 years old. A big “No” before I even spoke the words “Do I have a pet snake?”… I am terrified of snakes… In case you were wondering…


I hope to soon try to illuminate my path ahead. But all good things take time.

Here are a few quotes I wish to leave you with; as we all search for answers, in prayer, meditation, the advice of a friend, or even with a pendulum.

“There are years that ask questions, and years that answer.” – Zora Neale Hurston

“In your hesitation, I found my answer.” – Unknown

“You will always find

the answer in your heart

where it has been waiting

since long before the question.”

– Atticus



Samhain: An Altar & the Ancestors

Today I set up my Samhain Altar.

Samhain Altar

To honor the God and Goddess, and to honor and connect with my ancestors.

(as I’m writing this I am also watching and crying over Call the Midwife so bear with me)


I chose to first honor Al Greenway. I have to say I did not really know him. He was my Grandfather, well I guess Step Grandfather I guess is more accurate. But Al had always been there.

He loved to sit in his recliner during our family events. I don’t remember him speaking much, but I was young and wasn’t really listening.

He loved animals. My Grandmother and him started Greenview Aviaries, over the years it grew into a beautiful park and zoo. Though I know in my soul my own love of animals came from both sides of my family. My reflections for this coming Samhain, have guided me to the firm belief that while I was running around that park. Hearing the majesty of the Timber Wolves howl, seeing a Siberian Tiger stretch its beautiful paw, and watching the ducks lazily paddle along the pond. My love for animals grew exponentially.

Its for this, I honor him.


I also chose to honor Doris Miller. My Grandmother on my father’s side. She was an unbelievably strong and loving woman, she raised 7 children on her own after her husband was killed in a farming accident. She passed when I was young, but I remember her home, the wood stove and her baking giving the space this golden warmth.

It was full of little trinkets, handmade blankets, the rooms that had seen so much life and love. Each nook and cranny of her home had something stored away within. Her house always felt like a discovery waiting to happen as we explored and played, as we lived and laughed and loved.

Though I never got the chance to really know her. I admire the strength, courage, and determination she must have had.

It is for this, I honor her.


As it grows closer to midnight, I find my heart is filled with peace.

I found this on Pinterest, and I found it fitting to ring in October 31st.


“As the darkness now draws near.

See the cycle of the year.

As the light now goes within.

Let the Hallows Dance begin.”



Candice 🙂


I have recently embarked on a journey to become a Wiccan.

Maybe you’re thinking this is an act of rebellion or a cry for help. But it’s the exact opposite, I am embarking on a journey of self discovery, self love, and empowerment. Its this journey that I wish to share with you.

There are so many aspects to discern and discover, am I a Kitchen witch? An Elemental witch? Do I prefer to practice in solitude, or in a coven?

So, far this has prompted more questions than answers. But I continue to search, within myself and out in the world. I know my path will become clear as time goes on.

But now I am taking the time to contemplate the upcoming Samhain, or as the rest of the world knows it, Halloween.

A time, associated with death, rebirth, transformation, and the passage from light to darkness. It’s a time to review life, celebrate achievements, honor your ancestors, and let go of your losses.

Honoring my ancestors will be an interesting endeavor. The ancestors I wish to honor the most, were Christian, and I feel honoring them in my Wiccan ways may offend them. I hope to explore how to navigate that interesting aspect in the years to come.

But letting go. That I think I am ready for… What I am letting go of I am not sure. But I feel it in my soul. I will be letting go of something and then I will fly.



Candice 😊

“One of the most courageous decisions you’ll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart and soul.” – Brigitte Nicole


Elora Road Trip Playlist

I love sharing my music!

And the little trip to Elora I went on over the weekend, with my friend Erica was the perfect time to do it!

Here is the playlist, Enjoy!


Welcome to the Black Parade by Halflives

Always Remember Us this Way by Lady Gaga

I Hope You’re Happy by Blue October

Celebrate (feat. The Unlikely Candidates) by Dirty Heads

Million Reasons by Lady Gaga

Into the Fire (Acoustic Version) by Asking Alexandria

Praying by Kesha

Sound of Change by Dirty Heads

Dance With You by LIVE

Everything Is Alright by The Glorious Sons

Run to the Water by LIVE

The Family


Just some friendly advice… It is not easy getting a “family photo” of 3 cats, 1 dog, and a human.

I recommend long sleeves… And sedation… For the human or the pets, dealer’s choice…

But here it is!

Family Photo

Quite a circus eh? Honestly, I’m quite surprised that I made it out with little blood loss. But I was absolutely worth it! And now I am very happy for you to meet my boys!

My oldest cat is Mop.

His full name is Dustmop. He’s my grumpy old man. He’s my cuddle bug, my sleeping buddy, and my first pet after I moved out of my parents. When ever anyone meets Mop, the first thing they notice, is he has RBF (resting b***h face). He’s part Persian so he has a smooshy nose that just makes him look pissed all the time.

Next thing will probably be the fact that he is now on your lap stealing your warmth. But don’t touch him. He doesn’t want that. Just your warmth.


“Umm, is he missing an ear?”

Yup! He had chronic ear issues before I got him from the rescue. His pinna was pretty damaged (the part that sticks up), and it was quite uncomfortable for him and very difficult to put in ear medication, so I had it removed.

Mop - Family photo

Next is Killian… the middle child.

He is my handsome boy, and he knows it. He is also a bit of a diva.

I got him after he was dumped on my parents’ farm. He was so affectionate and chatty my Dad could not get any work done in his shop, so he sent me a picture. Big bright yellow eyes, perfect white whiskers on this black face with a white chin patch, and the most perfect ears I have ever seen. He captured my heart. I drove down that day to get him.

I had wanted a friend for Mop while I was at work, it seemed like it was meant to be! I soon realized Mop wanted nothing to do with him and Killian could not care less… He was too busy eating, he had settled right in.

He is the quintessential s**t disturber cat. Chewing plastic, knocking things off my bookshelves as he tried to get to the bag of cat food or the hamster.

Touching his belly means death. Or just him screaming at you. He does not want any affection until I have something on my lap, then it MUST move. Or when I’m trying to sleep. He knows where hands are under the pillow and will nudge them with his nose in an attempt to promote pets, and he knows how to paw at my face to test if I’m awake… Or wake me up… Also, he drools when he is happy.

Killian - Family photo

Last of the cats is Link, my baby boy. Winky, the Winklest Wink, Kitten.

So many nicknames, so little time… he came to me as a baby, he had major eye issues and was possibly blind.

Link - kitten - family photo

Rough lookin’ eh?

Killian needed a friend (see a pattern here?) and I didn’t mind having a blind cat. Luckily, we managed to save his eyes and his sight! He just has a medical condition that makes his eyes look cloudy.

So, he came home with me! He was hand raised, so he was already a bit odd. But he loved Killian, they became thick as thieves. He is a nervous boy though, he’s never really liked cuddles and he hides whenever guests are over.

The two loves in his life other than Killian, are the laser pointer and the bathroom sink. He LOVES the laser pointer. He can hear the click from all the way across the apartment. And for a decent amount of time after playing with the laser pointer, if I pick up anything laser pointer shaped he perks up.

“Red Dot?!!???!?!”

No Link, not red dot, I just a remote.

*sad cat face*

Then there is the bathroom sink… ahh the sink… basically what he wants is for the sink to be running a very thin slow stream of water that he can play with a drink at his leisure. He loves to stick his paw under the water, watch it run off. Pull it out, look at his wet paw. And do it again.

If the sink is running to fast he will try to bury the water, he digs and digs and digs. Dang it! Where is all this water coming from!? And eventually leave miffed.

Link - Family photo

Then, there’s Fawkes, my doggo.

He is the most recent addition. I got him as a rescue, he was very sick as a puppy and his first owners could not afford his care. He was surrendered, got better, then I got him!

Now what breed is he…? Your guess is as good as mine. Pomeranian/Papillon? Maltese/Papillon? Pomeranian/Maltese? Who knows! I tend to just describe him as a mix and call it a day…

He was a cute puppy. So, freaking cute! He learned fetch the first day I had him and now its his most favorite game! That and tearing apart toys… Seriously this dog can get the toughest toy I can buy him, some how this little monster finds the ONE SEAM IT HAS!! Aaaannd its in pieces. Luckily, he does not eat the pieces! Just leaves a mess for me to clean up…

Fawkes has brought a lot of joy and energy to my life and despite it all I would not trade him for anything!

Fawkes - family photo

Last is Harry, Harry the Hobo, Harry Houdini, Harry Potter, Harry the Hamster.

He was brought into my work in a shoe box by some good citizens. Their question was innocent and warranted “Are there wild hamsters in the city?”

They had found him, the tiniest hamster running around a railroad track. The people managed to catch him and bring him in. (I work at an animal hospital) He was sassy! He had to be! He was a wild boy! He lived on the wrong side of the tracks! But ultimately his side of the story was kyboshed as there are no wild hamsters where I live.

We figured he had been bought by a family, his box some how got dropped before they got to the house and he was gone!

No one claimed him. So, I took him home! This little f***er has lived up to his name Harry Houdini! He has broken out of his cage so many times! Once he was missing for 4 days. I searched everywhere! Eventually after a long night of searching I went to bed… my cats started acting weird… rustle, rustle, rustle… closer… Ruslte… RUSTLE… HE WAS HIDING IN THE BOX SPRING!! I turn on my phone light. Glance over the edge of my bed to see Harry, paws in the air, frozen. 4 sets of eyes on him. Mop, Killian, Link and me. He was apprehended without incident.

Harry - family photo

So that’s my crazy family! It a busy apartment but I could not imagine my life with out them. To quote Stitch from the wonderful Disney movie Lilo and Stitch “This is my family, I found it all on my own. It’s little and broken, but still good. Yeah, still good.”


Candice 😊

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